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You see her through the crowd of bodies on the dance floor. Out of every girl in the space, she's the one that you want. If you're trying to pick up a girl on a club dance floor, knowing how to handle yourself and get her to notice you is essential to take the first steps. Whether you're shy, cool and collected or the most confident person in the place, flirting your way to a date with your club crush requires you to know what girls like, want and tolerate.
Look around the girl and notice if she's with anyone else. Dance over to where she is and take a gander at who is near. Flirting must follow socially acceptable rules. Trying to pick up a girl who is already attached violates one of these rules and may get you into trouble. If she's with someone else, walk away. If not, proceed with caution.
Move in so that you are close enough to her that she will notice you. Avoid dancing behind her back or just out of her view. Position yourself so that you are in front of her, making her notice you. You also need to get close enough so that she can see your face and eyes.
Say that you like her with your body and face, instead of only with your words. Use your body language to indicate that you have an interest in her. If you're going to flirt on the dance floor, doing it with your gaze is more likely to get her attention than with words that she won't hear over the loud music. When you first make your move, hold back and don't push yourself into her or crowd her too much. Casually dance your way up to her space. This doesn't mean that you need to completely invade her space or physically touch her. If she's into you, she won't back off or turn away. Look for her to move in closer, giving you the go-ahead to proceed and flirt. As she opens up to you and allows you into her space, lean in and say a simple "hi" to her and hold her gaze in yours.
Guide her to another spot on the dance floor or lead her off to a more quiet area. Use a gentle, reserved touch. You can subtly flirt with a simple palm on her shoulder or brush of your hand against her arm.
Look around the girl and notice if she's with anyone else. Dance over to where she is and take a gander at who is near. Flirting must follow socially acceptable rules. Trying to pick up a girl who is already attached violates one of these rules and may get you into trouble. If she's with someone else, walk away. If not, proceed with caution.
Move in so that you are close enough to her that she will notice you. Avoid dancing behind her back or just out of her view. Position yourself so that you are in front of her, making her notice you. You also need to get close enough so that she can see your face and eyes.
Say that you like her with your body and face, instead of only with your words. Use your body language to indicate that you have an interest in her. If you're going to flirt on the dance floor, doing it with your gaze is more likely to get her attention than with words that she won't hear over the loud music. When you first make your move, hold back and don't push yourself into her or crowd her too much. Casually dance your way up to her space. This doesn't mean that you need to completely invade her space or physically touch her. If she's into you, she won't back off or turn away. Look for her to move in closer, giving you the go-ahead to proceed and flirt. As she opens up to you and allows you into her space, lean in and say a simple "hi" to her and hold her gaze in yours.
Guide her to another spot on the dance floor or lead her off to a more quiet area. Use a gentle, reserved touch. You can subtly flirt with a simple palm on her shoulder or brush of your hand against her arm.
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