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Faizan
Throughout the years, men and boys have used numerous pick-up lines and quirky tactics to turn the head of a lovely female. If you're used to being rejected after using lines like "Are you tired? Because you've been running through my mind all day?" or "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?", trying a more sincere approach will likely be more effective.
She's a Person
Many guys tend to throw the same lines at different girls. Why doesn't this work? Because we ladies are all different. Noticing our differences is the first step to treating women like human beings. Instead of seeing a women as a conquest, try and view her as a person and talk to her as an individual. Start off with something small, a conversation starter, to grab her attention. It could be something as simple as commenting on a band or song playing, complimenting her outfit (if you genuinely like it, that is) or offering to buy her a drink. If you're in a bar or club, ask her to dance, play darts or pool. Games are an easy way to break the uncomfortable ice.
Ask Questions
You can't get to know someone without asking questions. Questions such as, "If you could compare yourself to any animal, which animal best describes you" are much more intriguing than, "What do you study?" or "What do you do?". Asking genuine questions and remembering your lady's answers will likely score you her digits. Remember, listening is just as important as asking.
Be Yourself
Lots of guys make the mistake of trying to be what they think girls want. All women have different tastes in men, and all types of men can be attractive to women. It's easy to exaggerate your hobbies, but the best strategy to get a girl is good, old fashioned honesty. If a woman can't trust what you say, she will not meet you for dinner, coffee, a concert or a late-night drink. Honesty pays. That's not to say you can't spin a positive light on your situation. If a lady asks what kind of car you drive and you don't have a set of wheels, tell her you don't have a car due to their greenhouse gas emissions. Be clever, honest and fun.
Get a Wingman
Many guys and girls find it easier to talk to new prospective partners when they're out with friends. Having a "wingman" to encourage you can give you the confidence to make the first move. Plus meeting new people in a group is sometimes less intimidating.
Have No Fear
Even if you treat the woman you're eyeing like a person, ask her real questions to get to know her and be completely yourself, it still might not work. Since you don't know what's going on in this woman's life, don't be discouraged if you're turned down even if you were being completely genuine. Don't let one "no" frighten you out of trying again.
She's a PersonMany guys tend to throw the same lines at different girls. Why doesn't this work? Because we ladies are all different. Noticing our differences is the first step to treating women like human beings. Instead of seeing a women as a conquest, try and view her as a person and talk to her as an individual. Start off with something small, a conversation starter, to grab her attention. It could be something as simple as commenting on a band or song playing, complimenting her outfit (if you genuinely like it, that is) or offering to buy her a drink. If you're in a bar or club, ask her to dance, play darts or pool. Games are an easy way to break the uncomfortable ice.
Ask Questions
You can't get to know someone without asking questions. Questions such as, "If you could compare yourself to any animal, which animal best describes you" are much more intriguing than, "What do you study?" or "What do you do?". Asking genuine questions and remembering your lady's answers will likely score you her digits. Remember, listening is just as important as asking.
Be Yourself
Lots of guys make the mistake of trying to be what they think girls want. All women have different tastes in men, and all types of men can be attractive to women. It's easy to exaggerate your hobbies, but the best strategy to get a girl is good, old fashioned honesty. If a woman can't trust what you say, she will not meet you for dinner, coffee, a concert or a late-night drink. Honesty pays. That's not to say you can't spin a positive light on your situation. If a lady asks what kind of car you drive and you don't have a set of wheels, tell her you don't have a car due to their greenhouse gas emissions. Be clever, honest and fun.
Get a Wingman
Many guys and girls find it easier to talk to new prospective partners when they're out with friends. Having a "wingman" to encourage you can give you the confidence to make the first move. Plus meeting new people in a group is sometimes less intimidating.
Have No Fear
Even if you treat the woman you're eyeing like a person, ask her real questions to get to know her and be completely yourself, it still might not work. Since you don't know what's going on in this woman's life, don't be discouraged if you're turned down even if you were being completely genuine. Don't let one "no" frighten you out of trying again.
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