Friday, 11 September 2015

How to Cure Wedding Jitters

You're about to take the big plunge, so it's only natural to get cold feet. Think about why you're feeling this way, but keep in mind that many brides and grooms experience the pre-wedding jitters - and that there's a reason you said yes in the first place.

Go to a quiet place to get in touch with your feelings whenever the pressures of the pending marriage get to you.

Reflect upon what you enjoy most about each other, the factors that make you think you'll be happy together and what is really important to you in life and love.

Think back to the very moment you knew you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your life with your future spouse.

Look to couples who have survived and celebrated many years of marriage. They can be a good source of support and great role models.

Talk with your intended about your doubts and fears. You don't have to wait until after the marriage to communicate.

Limit the time you spend with those who may be doing the doubting for you. Make sure your fears are really your own and not those of your friends or your parents.

Set aside some time before the wedding to spend a romantic evening with your partner, away from all the wedding talk and plans.

Consider going to a couple's counselor to talk out your doubts.

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