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Parents often avoid talking with teens about sexuality fearing they lack knowledge or because the topic feels uncomfortable. A good way for parents to start communication on the topic involves books aimed at a teen audience. Books on sex and emotions become a useful, educational tool when used correctly. Parents and teens can utilize these books as a starting point for discussion on a sensitive topic.
Expert Authors
Written by teachers experienced with this age group, these books will resonate with your teenager. Bronwen Pardes, the author of "Doing It Right: Making Smart, Safe, and Satisfying Choices About Sex" has a graduate degree in human sexuality and teaches sexuality education at high schools and colleges. She includes chapters on readiness for sex, sexually transmitted diseases and birth control in an easy to understand, straightforward book. Michael J. Basso, author of "The Underground Guide to Teenage Sexuality" is known for his work in behavioral psychology and sexuality. He spent eight years at an inner city high school working with youth. He includes chapters on healthy and unhealthy relationships and how to say no to sex.
Books for Teen Girls
Selene Yeager's "What’s With My Body? The Girls’ Book of Answers to Growing Up, Looking Good, and Feeling Great" utilizes a question and answer format. Reassuring and practical, this book covers the body from acne to weight as well as giving advice for good health. The author also discusses emotions, sexuality and well being. For younger teen girls, the “What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Girls" by Lynda Madaras is a straightforward book about changes in the body during puberty. A mother herself, Madaras includes a thoughtful introduction aimed at parents that gives advice on starting a discussion on sexuality with teens.
Books for Teen Boys
"Our Boys Speak: Adolescent Boys Write about Their Inner Lives" by John Nikkah, includes writings by teenage boys on emotionally charged subjects as well as commentary by the author. Nikkah dispels the stereotype that boys don't need guidance on feelings. Thoughtful and honest, this book would make a good starting point for discussion on emotions and sex. "The Boy's Body Book: Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up YOU" by Kelli Dunham thoroughly covers puberty, lifestyle and includes chapters on peer pressure and making new friends. Chapters on staying safe in relationships and dealing with emotions make this book especially helpful for teens.
Real Life Advice
"How Can You Tell If You’re Really in Love?" by Sol Gordon, gives teens good, practical advice on respect and intimacy. This book defines love in depth and advises teens on making a commitment to the right person. Teens already in relationships can consult the "love checklist" for a reality check. Columbia University's Health Education program put a book together based on real student questions. "The “Go Ask Alice” Book of Answers: A Guide to Good Physical, Sexual and Emotional Health" gives sensible non-judgmental advice. The book unflinchingly covers tough questions from teens that range from breast implants to shyness. The book covers a large number of questions from teens and invites those who have more questions to visit the website and submit their own question.
Expert Authors
Written by teachers experienced with this age group, these books will resonate with your teenager. Bronwen Pardes, the author of "Doing It Right: Making Smart, Safe, and Satisfying Choices About Sex" has a graduate degree in human sexuality and teaches sexuality education at high schools and colleges. She includes chapters on readiness for sex, sexually transmitted diseases and birth control in an easy to understand, straightforward book. Michael J. Basso, author of "The Underground Guide to Teenage Sexuality" is known for his work in behavioral psychology and sexuality. He spent eight years at an inner city high school working with youth. He includes chapters on healthy and unhealthy relationships and how to say no to sex.
Books for Teen Girls
Selene Yeager's "What’s With My Body? The Girls’ Book of Answers to Growing Up, Looking Good, and Feeling Great" utilizes a question and answer format. Reassuring and practical, this book covers the body from acne to weight as well as giving advice for good health. The author also discusses emotions, sexuality and well being. For younger teen girls, the “What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Girls" by Lynda Madaras is a straightforward book about changes in the body during puberty. A mother herself, Madaras includes a thoughtful introduction aimed at parents that gives advice on starting a discussion on sexuality with teens.
Books for Teen Boys
"Our Boys Speak: Adolescent Boys Write about Their Inner Lives" by John Nikkah, includes writings by teenage boys on emotionally charged subjects as well as commentary by the author. Nikkah dispels the stereotype that boys don't need guidance on feelings. Thoughtful and honest, this book would make a good starting point for discussion on emotions and sex. "The Boy's Body Book: Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up YOU" by Kelli Dunham thoroughly covers puberty, lifestyle and includes chapters on peer pressure and making new friends. Chapters on staying safe in relationships and dealing with emotions make this book especially helpful for teens.
Real Life Advice
"How Can You Tell If You’re Really in Love?" by Sol Gordon, gives teens good, practical advice on respect and intimacy. This book defines love in depth and advises teens on making a commitment to the right person. Teens already in relationships can consult the "love checklist" for a reality check. Columbia University's Health Education program put a book together based on real student questions. "The “Go Ask Alice” Book of Answers: A Guide to Good Physical, Sexual and Emotional Health" gives sensible non-judgmental advice. The book unflinchingly covers tough questions from teens that range from breast implants to shyness. The book covers a large number of questions from teens and invites those who have more questions to visit the website and submit their own question.
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