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"Your availability to a woman will contribute to her feelings of attraction" - Carlos Xuma.
It's a natural tendency for us guys to be obsess over a girl we have a crush on.
We hang out with her every day and call her day and night trying hard to create attraction.
But what you probably don't know is that DESPERATELY pursuing a girl or being too available can ruin the attraction you're trying to create.
Yes, when you meet an attractive girl, it becomes hard to NOT think about her. But truth is, when you obsess over a girl or devote 100% of your time and attention to her, you display a very needy and desperate vibe. And if you didn't know by now, this is one of the quickest ways to lose her.
Sure, you'd want to create an attraction. But at the same time, you'd also want to convey to her you have other OPTIONS in life other than pursuing her.
And a great way to do this is to lead a busy and fun lifestyle. (There are two advantages to this, and you're going to discover them in this article.)
A busy and fun lifestyle equals attraction
A busy and fun lifestyle in the sense that, you want to NONVERBALLY communicate to a girl you BUSILY engage in fun and exciting activities other than cling to girls.
This way you stand out from other guys and convey to her you're an attractive guy.
Now, the question is... how would a girl notice you when you're NOT pursuing her? Or more accurately, how would a girl fall for you when you're not giving her the 'time and attention' she needs?
Simple...
... because girls want to have fun.
Girls are extremely and naturally attracted to guys who lead a fun and exciting lifestyle. And a girl will be more attracted to you if she thinks you are fun to be around.
Making yourself unavailable
When you're too available and cling to a girl, she gets the impression that she has got your interest already. And that's when she begins to manipulate you and play hard to get.
But if you're NOT readily available yet you've managed to build rapport with her with your attractive personality, she'll get the impression you're not the kind of guy who clings to girls.
Thus, you become a good catch and irresistible. And she WILL be the one pursuing you.
As dating expert John Alexander has written:
"By not always being available, you will raise your value."
"It's a fundamental part of human psychology that we tend to assign a higher value to things that aren't readily available."
Unlike the lower status guy who's always available and desperately at a girl's beck and call, in the hopes that the girl falls in love with him, you come across as different. Because you're displaying higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who will cling to her and be at her beck and call.
So how do you separate yourself from other guys and build attraction quickly with the girl you like?
Keep reading.
It's a natural tendency for us guys to be obsess over a girl we have a crush on.
We hang out with her every day and call her day and night trying hard to create attraction.
But what you probably don't know is that DESPERATELY pursuing a girl or being too available can ruin the attraction you're trying to create.
Yes, when you meet an attractive girl, it becomes hard to NOT think about her. But truth is, when you obsess over a girl or devote 100% of your time and attention to her, you display a very needy and desperate vibe. And if you didn't know by now, this is one of the quickest ways to lose her.
Sure, you'd want to create an attraction. But at the same time, you'd also want to convey to her you have other OPTIONS in life other than pursuing her.
And a great way to do this is to lead a busy and fun lifestyle. (There are two advantages to this, and you're going to discover them in this article.)
A busy and fun lifestyle equals attraction
A busy and fun lifestyle in the sense that, you want to NONVERBALLY communicate to a girl you BUSILY engage in fun and exciting activities other than cling to girls.
This way you stand out from other guys and convey to her you're an attractive guy.
Now, the question is... how would a girl notice you when you're NOT pursuing her? Or more accurately, how would a girl fall for you when you're not giving her the 'time and attention' she needs?
Simple...
... because girls want to have fun.
Girls are extremely and naturally attracted to guys who lead a fun and exciting lifestyle. And a girl will be more attracted to you if she thinks you are fun to be around.
Making yourself unavailable
When you're too available and cling to a girl, she gets the impression that she has got your interest already. And that's when she begins to manipulate you and play hard to get.
But if you're NOT readily available yet you've managed to build rapport with her with your attractive personality, she'll get the impression you're not the kind of guy who clings to girls.
Thus, you become a good catch and irresistible. And she WILL be the one pursuing you.
As dating expert John Alexander has written:
"By not always being available, you will raise your value."
"It's a fundamental part of human psychology that we tend to assign a higher value to things that aren't readily available."
Unlike the lower status guy who's always available and desperately at a girl's beck and call, in the hopes that the girl falls in love with him, you come across as different. Because you're displaying higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who will cling to her and be at her beck and call.
So how do you separate yourself from other guys and build attraction quickly with the girl you like?
Keep reading.
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