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Faizan
If someone is in a position where they find it hard to stand their ground and to pay attention to their needs and feelings, they could come to believe that they need to become more assertive. As a result of this, they could end up taking part in some kind of assertiveness training.
The Next Step
Through taking this approach, one may find that it is only a matter of time before their life changes. What could be classed as a 'behavioural approach', will have been exactly what was required.
Then again, this might not have much of an effect on their behaviour; it could still be a challenge for them to assert themselves. Alternatively, one might not even feel comfortable enough to take part in something like this.
The Ideal
When someone has boundary problems, it is going to be essential for them to do something about it. This is then no different to how it would be vital for someone to do something if they had a physical problem.
But while this is the case, someone might not even reach out for support, let alone take part in some kind assertiveness training. What this is likely to come down to is that experiencing life in this way can be what is normal.
Way Back
If one as to look back on their life, they might find it hard to remember a time when their life was different. Experiencing life in this way is likely to cause them to feel angry and frustrated from, but that might as far as it goes.
Yet, although they might think about what happens when they are around others and get annoyed about it, this is not going to have much of an effect on what takes place when they are around others. When they are around others, they could soon lose touch with their needs and feelings and to what other people want.
The Next Step
Through taking this approach, one may find that it is only a matter of time before their life changes. What could be classed as a 'behavioural approach', will have been exactly what was required.
Then again, this might not have much of an effect on their behaviour; it could still be a challenge for them to assert themselves. Alternatively, one might not even feel comfortable enough to take part in something like this.
The Ideal
When someone has boundary problems, it is going to be essential for them to do something about it. This is then no different to how it would be vital for someone to do something if they had a physical problem.
But while this is the case, someone might not even reach out for support, let alone take part in some kind assertiveness training. What this is likely to come down to is that experiencing life in this way can be what is normal.
Way Back
If one as to look back on their life, they might find it hard to remember a time when their life was different. Experiencing life in this way is likely to cause them to feel angry and frustrated from, but that might as far as it goes.
Yet, although they might think about what happens when they are around others and get annoyed about it, this is not going to have much of an effect on what takes place when they are around others. When they are around others, they could soon lose touch with their needs and feelings and to what other people want.
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