The first date is to dating what the job interview is to acquiring a job. It is on this first meeting that many make important decisions as to whether to build a relationship or instead simply move on to another potential romantic partner. While not all date partners make their feelings completely apparent, there are some signs you can watch for when trying to determine how the individual with whom you are sharing a date really feels about you.
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Think about the time that went into the planning of the date. If she obviously put quite a bit of effort into making the outing a memorable one, it's a sign that she likes you quite a bit already. If, for example, she got box seat tickets at a baseball game featuring your favorite team, she is likely trying her best to impress you.
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Count how many questions he asks. While you don't need an exact count, keeping a mental tally of how often he asks you about yourself is an easy way to see how much he likes you. If he is constantly querying you as to your hobbies, interests and skills on this first date it is likely that he is eager to get to know more about you.
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Reflect on how much she shares. If the person with whom you are on a date likes you, she will likely open up more than she would were she not into you. All date partners will share little tidbits about themselves, but if you find yourself getting into a deeper, more meaningful, conversation, you can count it as a good sign.
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Watch his eyes. While different sights will certainly catch his gaze while sitting together in a busy space, a guy who is truly into you will likely give you most of his attention. If his eyes are constantly skimming across the restaurant instead of gazing into yours he might not be as interested in you as you would like.
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Think about whether he touches you. While you likely don't expect much heavy-petting on a first date, a few tender touches can be a sign that he is really into you.
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Consider whether the individual asks for a second date. If the person with whom you are sharing a date is really into you, she will likely ask you for a second date, or at least give you some indication that she wants to see more of you. If the date ends instead with simply a "thanks" and no talk of a future meet up, she may not be smitten with you..l
1
Think about the time that went into the planning of the date. If she obviously put quite a bit of effort into making the outing a memorable one, it's a sign that she likes you quite a bit already. If, for example, she got box seat tickets at a baseball game featuring your favorite team, she is likely trying her best to impress you.
2
Count how many questions he asks. While you don't need an exact count, keeping a mental tally of how often he asks you about yourself is an easy way to see how much he likes you. If he is constantly querying you as to your hobbies, interests and skills on this first date it is likely that he is eager to get to know more about you.
3
Reflect on how much she shares. If the person with whom you are on a date likes you, she will likely open up more than she would were she not into you. All date partners will share little tidbits about themselves, but if you find yourself getting into a deeper, more meaningful, conversation, you can count it as a good sign.
4
Watch his eyes. While different sights will certainly catch his gaze while sitting together in a busy space, a guy who is truly into you will likely give you most of his attention. If his eyes are constantly skimming across the restaurant instead of gazing into yours he might not be as interested in you as you would like.
5
Think about whether he touches you. While you likely don't expect much heavy-petting on a first date, a few tender touches can be a sign that he is really into you.
6
Consider whether the individual asks for a second date. If the person with whom you are sharing a date is really into you, she will likely ask you for a second date, or at least give you some indication that she wants to see more of you. If the date ends instead with simply a "thanks" and no talk of a future meet up, she may not be smitten with you..l